Life is sometimes crazy.  We think we know someone and then they turn around and throw you a curve.  What do you do about it?  Do you take the chip to the chin?  Or do  you lay down and wallow in it?  I think we just have to roll with the puches because God doesn't give us more than we can bare.  He makes us stronger in spite of what we go through.  Whether you are in an abusive relationship, a cheating spouse, or life just keeps giving you lemons, you owe it to yourself and God to keep on movin'!